Kjærlighet, sensitivitet, stillhet ... - hjerte, smerte og mystikk ... - frihet, elskov og erotikk ...
25. nov. 2009
Smile in trouble
Let those we love be perfectly themselves
Art of living
- Francois A. R. Chateaubriand
22. nov. 2009
Kan vi ha kjærlighet til våre klienter?
Learning to love is a lifetime process
11. nov. 2009
25. okt. 2009
Introduksjon til Martinus og hans intuisjons-kosmologi
av Rolf Kenneth Myhre
27. sep. 2009
Amal Adens utrolige reise
15. sep. 2009
Lærerens kall: Å være oppdrager
"Historien skal avspeile den menneskelige tragedie i et for barna mest mulig gripende billedsprog. Historien handler om dem selv! Og man må dvele lengst mulig i mytekretsene om de store og gode karakterer; det må vises at de klarte å forandre litt på verden. Det gir barna mot og livskraft. For alle har sitt stykke av verdenshistorien å arbeide med. De har sitt liv. Og de sterkeste og mest begavede blant dem har også ansvar for andres liv. Historien skal lære dem at det nytter å forandre på verden" (Bjørneboe, "Jonas", 1972, s. 106).
Society needs more people being kind to others
9. sep. 2009
Haitian Revolution, voodoo and Erzulie, the spirit of love
"At a 1791 ceremony in Bwa Cayman (Caiman Forest), a Vodou priestess possessed by Ezili Danto slit a black pig's throat. Those present drank its blood, and then swore that they would drive out the French slave masters or die trying. A week later, 1000 settlers were dead, the rich plantations of Cape François were in smoldering ruins and the Haitian Revolution had begun. Some say slavers cut out the priestess's tongue as punishment for participating in the revolution, while still others claim Danto was made mute by the black guerrillas so that she could not betray them under torture if captured. All agree that thirteen years later the last French soldiers were gone, and the Free Black Republic of Haiti was born." ("Ezili Danto: Single Mother with a Knife" an article by Kevin Filan)
The word voodoo, vodun or vodou, means spirit. New World Voodoo and its derivatives is a razor sharp case of religious syncretism between the ancient religion imported together with West African slaves, the Christian beliefs of their masters and local religions.The Loa, also called the Mysteries and the Invisibles, are a central part of Voodoo, or Vodou. They act as intermediaries between human beings and the creator, not unlike Saints and Angels do in Catholicism. One of the largest differences however between African and Haitian Vodou is that the transplanted Africans of Haiti were obliged to disguise their loa, or spirits as Roman Catholic saints, a process called syncretism.
The Loa, or lwa, are divided into several nachons (nations). Two of the major nachons are the Rada and Petro, or Petwo. The Rada loas are guardians of morals and principles, related to Africa, The Petwo lwa originated in Haiti, under the harsh conditions of slavery, and are considered more aggressive. Some mistakenly refer to the Rada lwa as "good" and the Petwo as "evil." This is misleading as the Rada lwa can be used to make malevolent magic, while the Petwo can heal and do beneficial workings. They are more accurately referred to as "cool" and "hot," respectively.
Some loas, such as Erzulie, have both Rada and Petro manifestations.
Erzulie Freda Dahomey, the Rada aspect of Erzulie, is the spirit of love, beauty, jewellery, dancing, luxury, and flowers. Erzulie is not a loa of elemental forces, but of ideal dreams, hopes and aspirations. Her symbol is a heart, her colours are pink, blue, white and gold, and her favourite sacrifices include jewellery, perfume, sweet cakes and liqueurs. Coquettish and very fond of beauty and finery, Erzulie Freda is femininity and compassion embodied, yet she also has a darker side; she is seen as jealous and spoiled and within some vodoun circles is considered to be lazy.
Erzulie manifests deep, deep passion, and Her moods can range from the height of joy to the depths of misery - when She mounts (spiritually possesses) a follower she or he goes from coquettish and seductive to crying her or himself to sleep, weeping for the limitations of love...
Ezili Dantor is considered to be the lwa of motherhood, single parent in particular. She is often depicted as a scarred and buxom black woman, holding a child protectively in one hand and a knife in the other. She is a warrior and a particularly fierce protector of women and children. Danto is considered the "mother" of the Petwo nation and is one of the most important Petwo lwa. Her colours are red, gold and navy blue, her symbols are a pierced heart, knives, and her favourite sacrifices include black pigs, fried pork (griot) and rum.
In Haiti, the scratches on Danto's face are attributed to Her battles with Freda, the light-skinned lwa of love and luxury, who is seen as both Her sister and Her greatest enemy. Where Her sister Freda is known for Her softness and gentleness, Danto is known for Her strength. In a land where injustice and grinding poverty are all too frequently the norm, even the lwa are not above injury. Their strength lies not in their invulnerability but in their ability to survive. What Danto gives her servants is not the ability to conquer so much as the ability to endure.
In serving the spirits, the Vodouisant seeks to achieve harmony with their own individual nature and the world around them, manifested as personal power and resourcefulness in dealing with life. Part of this harmony is membership in and maintaining relationships within the context of family and community. Love and support within the family of the Vodou sosiety seems to be the most important consideration. Generosity in giving to the community and to the poor is also an important value. One's blessings come through the community and there is the idea that one should be willing to give back to it in turn. Since Vodou has such a community orientation, there are no "solitaries" in Vodou, only people separated geographically from their elders and house.
The Haitian Vodou religion is an ecstatic rather than a fertility based tradition and does not discriminate against gay men and lesbian women or other queer people in any way. In Haitian Vodou the sexual orientation or gender identity and expression of a practitioner is of no concern in a ritual setting. It is seen as just the way God made a person. The spirits help each person to simply be the person that they are.
24. aug. 2009
Painting Love
"Painting is a most sincere way to describe yourself and your life. What you put down with a brush always has an honest subconscious layer. When a person paints she remembers a feeling. When you ask a person to paint love, you ask him to show his most personal inner self. I believe that through Painting Love, we will see something important in ourselves.
Painting Love is remembering love."
Painting love is A street art project on film and canvas, by:
Bjarke de Koning, Director; Mads Grymer Ejstrup, Writer; Julie Abrahamson, Editor; Jonas Drotner Mouritsen, VFX & Graphic; Esben Heick, Illustrator
Rasmus Poulsen, Musician; Martin Møller, Musician
20. aug. 2009
Grief, Sensitivity and Beyond
Perhaps love and the loss that comes with it might still seem like a source of pain that we could avoid if we were determined to. In a way we can. After a trauma around love or attachment, we often build a defense that overrides instinct (a defense that may be an instinct of its own) that keeps us from really loving anyone again. It doesn't make us very happy, but it does in its way limit future grief, even if it causes a different kind of ongoing grief.
Most people spend a lot of time in therapy or couples counseling whittling down whatever fear of loss they have that is based on the past. That could seem like a dumb idea, fostered by optimistic therapists who tout love without mentioning its cost. Why not leave the defense alone? Because the defense doesn't really work anyway. If we try to stop our love impulse, it just sneaks out and attaches itself to the most awful choices. So as with love, so with grief - almost the only thing the ego can do is "go with it," perhaps steering a little bit but not doing much more.
From August 2009: Comfort Zone ONLINE Copyright © 1999-2008 Elaine N. Aron, Ph.D.
30. juli 2009
Angst og kjærlighet
Og dog er det aldri av kjærlighed,
- kun angsten som spør dig foruden fred:
Min elskede - elsker du mig?
Olaf Bull
28. juli 2009
Love and Barriers
Shehzad Rashid
25. juli 2009
Creative people more open to stimuli from environment
This research was funded by the Stimson Fund and the Clark Fund at Harvard University and by the Connaught Fund at University of Toronto http://www.utoronto.ca/
The Quality of One's Heart
The unglamorous, unexotic truth is that deep and profound evolution is only possible when we show up to our own individual shadow work. The places where we harbor emotional injury, self judgment and inauthenitic ways of engaging bar us from true evolution. Showing up to these dark places is the only way to authentic participation.
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If the capacity to be present in one's heart, to gain greater and greater depth in one's ability to show up to oneself feels like the way to true presence- then the road home leads in, not out to some spiritual philosophy.
Jessica Thayer December. 12, 2008
20. juli 2009
Angrende eks-kannibal sulten på kjærlighet
Til tross for den uvanlige forbrytelsen ble han satt i et vanlig fengsel, for så å bli sendt rett hjem til landsbyen uten psykologisk oppfølging etter endt soning. Nå er ekskannibalens høyeste ønske å oppleve kjærlighet.
Hva er kjærlighet? Hvordan kan jeg beskrive noe jeg aldri har opplevd, aldri smakt?
Av Anders Park Framstad 20.07.2009
Encouraging individuals to be proactively nice
Melissa Morris, OperationNice Blog
Det er hipt å være grei igjen
Randi Fuglehaug (Dagbladet) rapporterer fra USA:
Oppriktighet blir trendy i vanskelige tider, mener Hyde, og får støtte fra Graceann Bennett, sjef i reklamebyrået Ogilvy & Mather. Ifølge Bennett vil ikke kundene deres lenger ha de ironiske reklamekampanjene som har vært trenden i flere år. Hun mener det nå er inn å være snill.
18. juli 2009
Culture and the Highly Sensitive Person
Ref:: The Highly Sensitive Person by Elaine N. Aron
A Love Poem for Highly Sensitive People
So step forward,
you outrageous creature
with the amplified nervous system...
you undeniable proof of Divinity...
you hyper-aware catcher of overlooked subtleties and nuances.
Be big. Live big. Love big.
Small just doesn't suit you.
And you know it :-)
Emerge.
Please click heading to read the rest of the poem!
2009 © Erika Harris
12. juli 2009
HADO
Only when the two are together can they manifest the workings of nature
"Love" is absolute, an active energy - "Gratitude" is relative, a passive energy
Giving and receiving - Male and Female - Sun and Moon
Natures providence
The ratio of water is one to two, oxygen to hydrogen
Good water = 1 part love and 2 parts gratitude
my words from
The true power of water, Healing And Discovering Ourselves, by Masaru Emoto
12. juni 2009
27. mai 2009
Stille i deg selv
Vigdis Garbarek
24. mai 2009
Song Of Enlightenment
you cannot get rid of it.
In not being able to get it, you get it.
When you are silent, it speaks;
when you speak, it is silent.
From Song Of Enlightenment by Zen Master Yung-chia.
Theologia Mystica
"... the truly mystical darkness of unknowing," that's what Theologia Mystica is all about. Dionysius calls it Agnosia.
22. mai 2009
21. mai 2009
St. Theresa's Prayer
'May today there be peace within. May you trust that you
are exactly where you are meant to be. May you not
forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith
in yourself and others. May you use the gifts that you
have received, and pass on the love that has been given
to you. May you be content with yourself just the way
you are. Let this knowledge settle into your bones, and
allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and
love. It is there for each and every one of us.'
10. mai 2009
Depth and Silence
Robert W. Funk, Roy W. Hoover, and the Jesus Seminar, The Five Gospels
7. mai 2009
3. jan. 2009
Love and Light
Copyright 2004, Skye Thomas, Tomorrow's Edge
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