25. nov. 2009

Smile in trouble

I love those who can smile in trouble, who can gather strength from distress, and grow brave by reflection. 'Tis the business of little minds to shrink, but they whose heart is firm, and whose conscience approves their conduct, will pursue their principles unto death.

Leonardo da Vinci

Let those we love be perfectly themselves

“The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.”


Thomas Merton

Art of living

A master in the art of living draws no sharp distinction between his work and his play; his labor and his leisure; his mind and his body; his education and his recreation. He hardly knows which is which. He simply pursues his vision of excellence through whatever he is doing, and leaves others to determine whether his is working or playing. To himself, he always appears to be doing both

 - Francois A. R. Chateaubriand

22. nov. 2009

Kjærlighet er naturens psykoterapi.

Eric Berne

Kan vi ha kjærlighet til våre klienter?

"Gudskjærlighet er et asymmetrisk forhold.  Ingen tvil heller om at mens det er sagt mange store ord om kjærlighet, er dette noe man egentlig ikke kan si så mye om, det elskende grunnprinsippet er noe som er større enn oss selv."
 ...
"En oppsummering av to dager rike på opplevelse og nye perspektiver (Agora-seminar), må være at kjærlighet er et vanskelig ord, dets innhold er uutsigelig, men mange hadde nedlagt et formidabelt arbeid for å finne ut av begrepet.  Kjærlighet er definert gjennom verdens religioner, dissekert i moderne vitenskap, handler om både frihet og forpliktelse.  Som fenomen må den leves og oppleves, og vi kan ikke la den abdisere når vi går inn i terapirommet."


Tove V Bliksrud, Institutt for Aktiv Psykoterapi (IAP)

Learning to love is a lifetime process


"It often has been said that "God is Love" ... and I firmly believe that each and every one of us is a Creator through our every thought, word and action ... thus making us individually and collectively expressions of "GOD".
...
For me, love is the immune system of the emotions and the psyche -- and the backbone of humanity. May I continue to pick myself up and to love ... again, again and again."

Fra Adam Donaldson Powell's blog

25. okt. 2009

Introduksjon til Martinus og hans intuisjons-kosmologi

"For Martinus er ikke allkjærlighet et abstrakt begrep, men en helt bestemt kombinasjon av grunn­energier som kan uttrykkes som harmoni mellom høy intelligens og foredlete emosjoner. Utvik­lingen frem mot allkjærlighet vil gå hånd i hånd med utviklingen frem mot psykisk og fysisk androgyni, dvs. en harmonisk integrasjon av kvinne­lige og mannlige kvaliteter. Andro­gynisering inne­bærer dog ikke en fremheving av kjønnsattributtene lik den mytologiske hermafroditten. I fremtidens androgyni er kjønnsattributtene nedtonet og under­ordnet en betydelig åndelig­gjøring av vesenet."

av Rolf Kenneth Myhre

27. sep. 2009

Amal Adens utrolige reise

"– Dere har skuffet meg! Dere har lukket øynene, og håpet at integreringen løste seg! Offentlige Norge må stille krav, og tilby hjelp. Vi minoritetsbarn kaster steiner og står langs elven, vi faller og faller mellom to kulturer, men dere gjør ikke noe! ... ... hvor er barneombudet? Barnevernet? Barne- og familieministeren? Regjeringen? Norge er rikt nok til å tilby sosialpenger, trygd og hybler med møbler. Men å se barn og ungdom som isoleres, som lider, snakke med dem, lytte, fange dem opp, det har vi ikke råd til! Det er en skam, og dere er i ferd med å få et stort og tragisk samfunnsproblem i fanget! Spør du meg, kan vi ikke ta imot flere asylsøkere før dere kan garantere at de blir sett." 


"... har gjort jobben offentlige Norge aldri klarte. De så meg og brydde seg...!"

Aftenposten, Kjetil Østli, Oppdatert: 09.03.09 kl. 18:26  Publisert: 09.03.09 kl. 10:00

15. sep. 2009

Lærerens kall: Å være oppdrager

Læreren skal være sannheten tro - skal være saklig, men i kjærlighet - engasjert saklighet! Vi skal ikke underslå problemene i verden. Men vi må heller ikke presentere dem på en slik måte at vi oppfordrer til flukt fra problemene i stedet for kamp. Sannheten skal utfordre oss - ikke lamme oss.
"Historien skal avspeile den menneskelige tragedie i et for barna mest mulig gripende billedsprog. Historien handler om dem selv! Og man må dvele lengst mulig i mytekretsene om de store og gode karakterer; det må vises at de klarte å forandre litt på verden. Det gir barna mot og livskraft. For alle har sitt stykke av verdenshistorien å arbeide med. De har sitt liv. Og de sterkeste og mest begavede blant dem har også ansvar for andres liv. Historien skal lære dem at det nytter å forandre på verden" (Bjørneboe, "Jonas", 1972, s. 106).

© Stein M. Wivestad 1991, Prismet,42, 243-248, et temanummer om lærerrollen

Society needs more people being kind to others

Today, kindness is commonly defined as "the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate," according to the Oxford dictionary. In ancient Greece, Aristotle defined kindness as "helpfulness towards some one in need, not in return for anything." Synonyms for kindness include "compassion," "empathy" and "love." These days the combined expression "loving kindness" seems to be catching on. The Dalai Lama is the first to agree that kindness, at least ideally, forms the heart of every great religion.

9. sep. 2009

Haitian Revolution, voodoo and Erzulie, the spirit of love

The Haitian Revolution (1791-1804) is, as historian C.L.R. James affirms, "the only successful slave revolt in history." Haiti was the first republic in modern history led by people of African descent. It went directly from being a French colony to governing itself. Historians traditionally identify the catalyst to revolution as a particular Vodou ceremony in August 1791 performed at Bois Caïman by Dutty Boukman, a priest, born in Jamaica, and later sold by his British master to a French plantation owner. His French name came from his English nickname, "Book Man," which he earned due to his ability to read. (Wikipedia)

"At a 1791 ceremony in Bwa Cayman (Caiman Forest), a Vodou priestess possessed by Ezili Danto slit a black pig's throat. Those present drank its blood, and then swore that they would drive out the French slave masters or die trying. A week later, 1000 settlers were dead, the rich plantations of Cape François were in smoldering ruins and the Haitian Revolution had begun. Some say slavers cut out the priestess's tongue as punishment for participating in the revolution, while still others claim Danto was made mute by the black guerrillas so that she could not betray them under torture if captured. All agree that thirteen years later the last French soldiers were gone, and the Free Black Republic of Haiti was born." ("Ezili Danto: Single Mother with a Knife" an article by Kevin Filan)


The word voodoo, vodun or vodou, means spirit. New World Voodoo and its derivatives is a razor sharp case of religious syncretism between the ancient religion imported together with West African slaves, the Christian beliefs of their masters and local religions.The Loa, also called the Mysteries and the Invisibles, are a central part of Voodoo, or Vodou. They act as intermediaries between human beings and the creator, not unlike Saints and Angels do in Catholicism. One of the largest differences however between African and Haitian Vodou is that the transplanted Africans of Haiti were obliged to disguise their loa, or spirits as Roman Catholic saints, a process called syncretism.

The Loa, or lwa, are divided into several nachons (nations). Two of the major nachons are the Rada and Petro, or Petwo. The Rada loas are guardians of morals and principles, related to Africa, The Petwo lwa originated in Haiti, under the harsh conditions of slavery, and are considered more aggressive. Some mistakenly refer to the Rada lwa as "good" and the Petwo as "evil." This is misleading as the Rada lwa can be used to make malevolent magic, while the Petwo can heal and do beneficial workings. They are more accurately referred to as "cool" and "hot," respectively.


Some loas, such as Erzulie, have both Rada and Petro manifestations.

Erzulie Freda Dahomey, the Rada aspect of Erzulie, is the spirit of love, beauty, jewellery, dancing, luxury, and flowers. Erzulie is not a loa of elemental forces, but of ideal dreams, hopes and aspirations. Her symbol is a heart, her colours are pink, blue, white and gold, and her favourite sacrifices include jewellery, perfume, sweet cakes and liqueurs. Coquettish and very fond of beauty and finery, Erzulie Freda is femininity and compassion embodied, yet she also has a darker side; she is seen as jealous and spoiled and within some vodoun circles is considered to be lazy.

Erzulie manifests deep, deep passion, and Her moods can range from the height of joy to the depths of misery - when She mounts (spiritually possesses) a follower she or he goes from coquettish and seductive to crying her or himself to sleep, weeping for the limitations of love...

Ezili Dantor is considered to be the lwa of motherhood, single parent in particular. She is often depicted as a scarred and buxom black woman, holding a child protectively in one hand and a knife in the other. She is a warrior and a particularly fierce protector of women and children. Danto is considered the "mother" of the Petwo nation and is one of the most important Petwo lwa. Her colours are red, gold and navy blue, her symbols are a pierced heart, knives, and her favourite sacrifices include black pigs, fried pork (griot) and rum.

In Haiti, the scratches on Danto's face are attributed to Her battles with Freda, the light-skinned lwa of love and luxury, who is seen as both Her sister and Her greatest enemy. Where Her sister Freda is known for Her softness and gentleness, Danto is known for Her strength. In a land where injustice and grinding poverty are all too frequently the norm, even the lwa are not above injury. Their strength lies not in their invulnerability but in their ability to survive. What Danto gives her servants is not the ability to conquer so much as the ability to endure.


In serving the spirits, the Vodouisant seeks to achieve harmony with their own individual nature and the world around them, manifested as personal power and resourcefulness in dealing with life. Part of this harmony is membership in and maintaining relationships within the context of family and community. Love and support within the family of the Vodou sosiety seems to be the most important consideration. Generosity in giving to the community and to the poor is also an important value. One's blessings come through the community and there is the idea that one should be willing to give back to it in turn. Since Vodou has such a community orientation, there are no "solitaries" in Vodou, only people separated geographically from their elders and house.

The Haitian Vodou religion is an ecstatic rather than a fertility based tradition and does not discriminate against gay men and lesbian women or other queer people in any way. In Haitian Vodou the sexual orientation or gender identity and expression of a practitioner is of no concern in a ritual setting. It is seen as just the way God made a person. The spirits help each person to simply be the person that they are.

24. aug. 2009

Painting Love

"Painting is a most sincere way to describe yourself and your life. What you put down with a brush always has an honest subconscious layer. When a person paints she remembers a feeling. When you ask a person to paint love, you ask him to show his most personal inner self. I believe that through Painting Love, we will see something important in ourselves.

Painting Love is remembering love."

Painting love is A street art project on film and canvas, by:
Bjarke de Koning, Director; Mads Grymer Ejstrup, Writer; Julie Abrahamson, Editor; Jonas Drotner Mouritsen, VFX & Graphic; Esben Heick, Illustrator
Rasmus Poulsen, Musician; Martin Møller, Musician

20. aug. 2009

Grief, Sensitivity and Beyond

Perhaps love and the loss that comes with it might still seem like a source of pain that we could avoid if we were determined to. In a way we can. After a trauma around love or attachment, we often build a defense that overrides instinct (a defense that may be an instinct of its own) that keeps us from really loving anyone again. It doesn't make us very happy, but it does in its way limit future grief, even if it causes a different kind of ongoing grief.

Most people spend a lot of time in therapy or couples counseling whittling down whatever fear of loss they have that is based on the past. That could seem like a dumb idea, fostered by optimistic therapists who tout love without mentioning its cost. Why not leave the defense alone? Because the defense doesn't really work anyway. If we try to stop our love impulse, it just sneaks out and attaches itself to the most awful choices. So as with love, so with grief - almost the only thing the ego can do is "go with it," perhaps steering a little bit but not doing much more.

From August 2009: Comfort Zone ONLINE Copyright © 1999-2008 Elaine N. Aron, Ph.D.

30. juli 2009

Angst og kjærlighet


Og dog er det aldri av kjærlighed,

- kun angsten som spør dig foruden fred:
Min elskede - elsker du mig?

Olaf Bull

28. juli 2009

Love and Barriers

"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."

Shehzad Rashid

25. juli 2009

Creative people more open to stimuli from environment

"We are very excited by the results of these studies," says Peterson. "It appears that we have not only identified one of the biological bases of creativity but have moved towards cracking an age-old mystery: the relationship between genius, madness and the doors of perception."

This research was funded by the Stimson Fund and the Clark Fund at Harvard University and by the Connaught Fund at University of Toronto http://www.utoronto.ca/

When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace.

- sa Jimi Hendrix

The Quality of One's Heart


The unglamorous, unexotic truth is that deep and profound evolution is only possible when we show up to our own individual shadow work. The places where we harbor emotional injury, self judgment and inauthenitic ways of engaging bar us from true evolution. Showing up to these dark places is the only way to authentic participation.
...
If the capacity to be present in one's heart, to gain greater and greater depth in one's ability to show up to oneself feels like the way to true presence- then the road home leads in, not out to some spiritual philosophy.

Jessica Thayer December. 12, 2008


20. juli 2009

Angrende eks-kannibal sulten på kjærlighet

For fem år siden gravde en mann opp liket til en gammel dame, og spiste det. Målet var et billig og «smakfullt» måltid.

Til tross for den uvanlige forbrytelsen ble han satt i et vanlig fengsel, for så å bli sendt rett hjem til landsbyen uten psykologisk oppfølging etter endt soning. Nå er ekskannibalens høyeste ønske å oppleve kjærlighet.

Hva er kjærlighet? Hvordan kan jeg beskrive noe jeg aldri har opplevd, aldri smakt?

Av Anders Park Framstad 20.07.2009

Encouraging individuals to be proactively nice

Don't you love it when people go out of their way to be nice? Like when someone waits to hold the door for you. Or when a stranger waves you into a line a traffic. Or even when a coworker shoots you a friendly smile along with a "have a nice day." If everyone was a little bit nicer to the folks they encountered each day, perhaps the world would be a more pleasant place. Operation NICE was initiated to remind you that a little NICE goes a long way.

Melissa Morris, OperationNice Blog

Det er hipt å være grei igjen

Randi Fuglehaug (Dagbladet) rapporterer fra USA:

Oppriktighet blir trendy i vanskelige tider, mener Hyde, og får støtte fra Graceann Bennett, sjef i reklamebyrået Ogilvy & Mather. Ifølge Bennett vil ikke kundene deres lenger ha de ironiske reklamekampanjene som har vært trenden i flere år. Hun mener det nå er inn å være snill.

18. juli 2009

Culture and the Highly Sensitive Person

"Xinyin Chen and Kenneth Rubin of the University of Waterloo in Ontario, Canada, and Yuerong Sun of Shanghai Teachers University compared 480 schoolchildren in Shanghai to 296 in Canada to see what traits made children most popular. In China 'shy' and 'sensitive' children were among those most chosen by others to be friends or playmates. (In Mandarin, the word for shy or quiet means good or well-behaved; sensitive can be translated as 'having understanding,' a term of praise.) In Canada, shy and sensitive children were among the least chosen."

Ref:: The Highly Sensitive Person by Elaine N. Aron

A Love Poem for Highly Sensitive People

...

So step forward,
you outrageous creature
with the amplified nervous system...
you undeniable proof of Divinity...
you hyper-aware catcher of overlooked subtleties and nuances.

Be big. Live big. Love big.
Small just doesn't suit you.

And you know it :-)

Emerge.


Please click heading to read the rest of the poem!
2009 © Erika Harris

12. juli 2009

HADO

Love and Gratitude
Only when the two are together can they manifest the workings of nature
"Love" is absolute, an active energy - "Gratitude" is relative, a passive energy
Giving and receiving - Male and Female - Sun and Moon
Natures providence
The ratio of water is one to two, oxygen to hydrogen
Good water = 1 part love and 2 parts gratitude

my words from
The true power of water, Healing And Discovering Ourselves, by Masaru Emoto

12. juni 2009

27. mai 2009

Stille i deg selv

"Når det blir mer stille i deg selv, så øker persepsjonen og konsentrasjonen. Da blir idealene og forhåpningene istedet automatisk tatt vare på, det som du først legger i en kjempefremtid. Da står du aldri i det forholdet at "jeg når aldri målet, men ville så gjerne". Da står du bare i forholdet du har til deg selv — gjennom en naturlig rensning og fordyping."

Vigdis Garbarek

24. mai 2009

Song Of Enlightenment

You cannot grasp it;
you cannot get rid of it.
In not being able to get it, you get it.
When you are silent, it speaks;
when you speak, it is silent.

From Song Of Enlightenment by Zen Master Yung-chia.

Theologia Mystica

Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh (Osho) says of these letters by Dionysius, first bishop of Athens, to his disciple Timothy: "His whole book is written with a disguise, as if it is a treatise on theology; mysticism is just somewhere by the side, secondary, not primary. Hence the name Theologica Mystica - as if mysticism is only a consequence of getting deep into the world of theology. Just the reverse is the case."

"... the truly mystical darkness of unknowing," that's what Theologia Mystica is all about. Dionysius calls it Agnosia.

21. mai 2009

Albert Einstein :

St. Theresa's Prayer

St. Theresa's Prayer

'May today there be peace within. May you trust that you
are exactly where you are meant to be. May you not
forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith
in yourself and others. May you use the gifts that you
have received, and pass on the love that has been given
to you. May you be content with yourself just the way
you are. Let this knowledge settle into your bones, and
allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and
love. It is there for each and every one of us.'

10. mai 2009

Elsk!

DET VIKTIGSTE ER IKKE HVEM DU ELSKER – MEN AT DU ELSKER


anonym

Depth and Silence

"In developed gnostic systems, at the beginning was the incomprehensible, invisible, eternal, and ungenerated Forefather, Depth; Depth gave rise to a female counterpart, Silence. Together they produced the next pair of Aeons, which eventuate in fourteen such pairs, each pair with lesser power and memory of its origin that the previous pair. At the lowest level is Wisdom and the creator God. Salvation consists in reascending the ladder of divine emanations and rejoining the godhead."

Robert W. Funk, Roy W. Hoover, and the Jesus Seminar, The Five Gospels

Mother's heart

"The mother's heart is the child's schoolroom."

Henry Ward Beecher

3. jan. 2009

Love and Light

Do not assume that you know enough to judge any one color or shade as superior or inferior to another. It is the same with the colors of energy as it is with the souls of men. Love them all for they are all pieces of yourself.

Copyright 2004, Skye Thomas, Tomorrow's Edge
© 1996-2008 SelfGrowth.com. All rights reserved

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